Ordinary Days: Anna, #1

 Let us reason together,

   says the Lord.

   (Isaiah 1:18)

 

Dear Anna,

In twenty days, you head off to New London, Connecticut, to begin your college days. It is your turn. Abby led going off to Texas State University in San Marcos and now continues her Physician Assistant program at Alabama. Then came her younger sister Priscilla who finished her first year at Baylor. And now you—off to Connecticut College. That’s over 3,000 miles away—about as far away as you can get without crossing the Atlantic.

Each has their own journey: Abby medical, Priscilla computer science, and now you and your love for history and political science—for Latin and the classics. Along with your deep passion for justice and equality. I remember, a long time ago, when you were in Junior High, and you found out that, in our church, women could not serve as elders; you cried, “That’s not right!” Your mom called me over to talk. And, we talked. We’ve always been free to talk, haven’t we? Let’s never lose that, okay? Even when you are a long way from home.

Love,

Papa

Eastertide 4th Week: First Year

Do you have what it takes

   to complete it? (Luke 14:28)

Dear Priscilla,

Finals week and then you come home. Your first year at Baylor University completed. Congratulation. I hear tell you are planning to come and see us. Can’t wait to see your face.

One more year, and you’ll be an upperclassman; or, is that “upperclasswoman.” Will your next year wiz by like this last? As the Apostle John wrote to one of his churches—he called her “The Chosen Lady.” The church is always a lady—the Bride of Christ. Let’s see, where were we? Oh, yes, as John wrote to his Chosen Lady: “I hope to see you face to face, so that our joy may be complete.” (2Jn v12)

Eastertide 4th Week: Orientation.

The Lord created medicines

   out of the earth. (Sirach 38:4)

Dear Abby, 

Orientation for your near three years of studies in the Physician’s Assistant Program at the University of South Alabama begins in a few days. So, you moved from San Marcos, TX some ten hours east along Interstate Ten to Mobile, AL, where you move into a home of your very own—some three blocks from the university, I’m told. What is it like to be a homeowner?

We will be interested in your Orientation and your classes for the semester. I’ve had a lot of interaction with Physician’s Assistants lately. They are the ones I communicate with. The PAs tell me when I can take the bandages off my head, and the stitches out of my scalp, and activate my stimulator. I tell them, “My granddaughter is studying to be a PA.” They light up.

A few years back, we did a road trip with the Sjodahls along Interstate Ten from New Orleans to Tallahassee, FL. We passed right through Mobile, but it meant nothing to me then. But now, it’s a special place.

 

Easter Sunday: pan ethnē (παν έθνη)

 The Messiah is to suffer

   and rise from the dead…

So that forgiveness of sins

   will be proclaimed to all nations. (Luke 24:46-48)

Dear Priscilla,

It is a lonely Easter Sunday for us. It has to do with the lingering pandemic. I’m quarantined till DBS surgery a week from Thursday. It’s my first Easter away from church—the fellowship, the community of saints who gather on this Sunday of all Sundays.

The “pan” in “pandemic” caused me to think of our risen Lord’s words: “pan ethnē.” You can figure it out without even knowing Greek: “all ethnicities;” or, as usually translated, “all nations.” That’s how us gentiles get in on it. Our Risen Lord teaches us that that was always in the heart of God—in all scripture, that the terms of Jesus’ death had to do with the salvation “of all people” (Lk 2:10).

Jen just dropped by on her way to church along with Sarah and Josh; so, it is not a totally lonely Easter after all. When they left for church, we found your Easter service on YouTube—Harris Creek. We looked for you among the worshipers. You pastor talked about the cross being the cure for the sickness of sin. A “pan” salvation for the pandemic of sin.

 

Lent: Friends

Greet our friends

   by name. (3 John 15)

Dear Priscilla,

I’m looking at the picture you sent Grammy of you with your university friends. I’m so happy you have found such good friends. I hope, like your sister Abby, you will be able to bring them by someday so that we can know them by name. Jesus refers to his Bethany friend as “Our friend Lazarus” (Jn 11:11). That is the thing about good friends—you want others, even your grandparents, to know them too.

I didn’t realize how difficult high school friendships were for you. In the midst of the COVID epidemic you moved from Vandegrift High School in Austin, TX, up I-25 near 1,000 miles to Dakota Ridge High School in Littleton, CO. Maybe God, like with Job, is making up double for what you lost. I pray you will be able to nestle into your university years, enjoy your university friendships, and even enjoy your university studies. Enter into your collegiate life with joy and thanksgiving. It is a special time.

Lent: Tears

Hold back your tears;

   don’t lose hope. (Jeremiah 31:16-17) 

Dear Anna,

I’m sorry to hear you did not get into Harvard or Yale, though you were interviewed by both. You had high hopes. You can’t help but be disappointed; even to tears. Tears are good. It means you care—that you have big aspirations and hopes. “‘Don’t lose hope!’ says the Lord” (Jr 31:17).

We try to comfort with phrases like: “God has a plan for your life;” or, “God closes one door to open another.” There’s truth to it. But we can’t speak the words of comfort until we allow sorrow to run its course. Lenten season allows us to sorrow with Jesus. Jesus wept. There is Easter Morning; but, between now and then, it is okay to cry. God allows us our tears. The Psalms are full of laments: “In my grief, I wondered if God really cares” (Ps 77 sung by the congregation).

 

 

Lent: Graduation

 Blessed are those

  who join in the festal walk. (Psalm 89:15)

Dear Abby,

Since we missed your Texas State University graduation due to COVID; Grammy and I were looking forward all the more to your Master’s graduation. But now we hear you won’t be able to join in the graduation ceremony; because Orientation to your Physician Assistant Program at Southern Alabama University starts the day before. That’s not fair. We were hoping to celebrate with you and see you walk in your festal Master’s Robe with those dangling sleeves swaying in the breeze.

We will figure out a celebration date of our own. Maybe Grammy and I will make a trip out to Mobile and see your new digs. The Bible makes provision for those who can’t make it to the big festivals:

If you can’t make it to the festival; you may sell the tithe portion of your crops and herds. Use the money to buy anything you want: cattle, sheep, wine, or beer—anything that looks good to you. You and your family can then feast in the Presence of the Lord, your God, and have a good time (Dt 14:24-26).

That’s what we will do—a family celebration in your new home.